Rules and Safety

About Domination

Domination is NOT prostitution. Do not contact me if you are looking for a sexual encounter. Domination is a safe and creative way to live out your fantasies and fetishes. Many individuals prefer domination because of these reasons.

Novices often contact me with questions as well as fears and reservations about domination. People often mistakenly believe domination is solely about pain, when in fact, domination can be experienced entirely without pain. You can visit my BDSM Myths page and Types of BDSM page for additional information.

When you contact me, we will discuss your fantasies and fetishes so I can determine where your interests are. Do not be afraid or embarrassed about disclosing your fantasies to me. I have a deep appreciation for domination and enjoy speaking with others who have the same interests, whether they are novices or lifetime players.

Before a session, I will review our phone or email conversations and answer any additional questions. I encourage open communication throughout the session in order to ensure we are both enjoying ourselves.

When you come to play with me, you are placing your trust in me while surrendering control. It is important to know that I will respect your boundaries and limits, and I expect you to respect mine as well.

Rules of the session:

Only submissive men and women, or dominant men and women wanting to play with another submissive will be accepted. Novices are also welcome. I am never a submissive, so do not ask for this. I am not an escort, so do not ask for anything beyond domination.

I will only play with dominant men or women who bring in another submissive man or woman for both of us to play with. I do have submissives available for double sessions. I will contact the submissive beforehand to make sure he or she is okay with the type of play that is being requested. Never, at anytime in my dungeon, will a submissive feel abused or taken advantage of in a negative way. Everything must be agreed upon and the submissive is free at anytime to stop whatever activities are going on during the session. Hurting someone in a harmful way is out of the question. This is fantasy play only.

Our playtime will be safe, sane and consensual as well as fun, sexy and erotic. Before each session, we will discuss in detail what both of us will and will not do. I expect you to fully respect my limits as I will respect yours. Contrary to popular belief, this is a 50/50 encounter and we can respect each other's limits and still have fun.

I have no interest in any activity that would put others or myself at risk including blood sports, brown showers, long term or permanent injuries and sexual activity. Do not waste my time by asking for these things.

I demand 100% submission and I will not tolerate rude behavior, sexual advances or topping from the bottom. Topping from the bottom means trying to dominate me. If you want to express your fantasies, likes or dislikes, go for it. I love feedback. But I will not tolerate sexual aggression or attempts to dominate me.

I understand that your work and personal life comes first, so if you need to cancel or reschedule a session, I expect you to give me advanced notice.

I also understand that traffic is unpredictable in Atlanta. If you are going to be late, I expect you to inform me. I do not book sessions back to back, so if you are running late, just give me a heads up as to when you expect to arrive.

No-shows will not be allowed to reschedule. Sexually aggressive or rude submissives will be asked to leave immediately.

Safety

When you submit to a dominant, it is the dominant’s responsibility to make sure that you are not harmed physically or mentally. It is important that limits are discussed before each session and communication remains open throughout the session. We are both there to have fun and enjoy ourselves.

The environment should be clean. All of my dungeon implements are cleaned with a hospital brand solution and the floors are mopped after every session. Shower facilities are available for personal clean up.

The play should be responsible and safe. Submissives are never left alone or in potentially dangerous positions. If I cannot get you out of a position in less than a minute or if you cannot speak, we will move on to something safer. Choking, breath play or anything else that could lead to permanent damage, or even worse, are forbidden.

You must always attend the session sober. Drugs are not allowed in my home or dungeon. If I suspect you are drunk or high, you will be asked to leave immediately.

Bottled water and snack bars are available during the session. If you are into heavy play, I suggest eating something healthy before the session.

Any type of play that involves permanent injuries is forbidden. I have no interest in harming another human. I suggest therapy if you want another person to harm you. Like I said before, this is fantasy play.

Any activities that involve the transmission of fluids as well as the potential risk of sexually transmitted diseases are forbidden. Spitting and golden showers are fine. Blood sports, brown showers and sexual activity are dangerous and therefore, unacceptable.

It is important to discuss limits before the session, but you have the right to stop activities at any time during the session. I expect submissives to let me know if they are experiencing bad pain. There is a huge difference between good pain and bad pain and I am never offended when the submissive needs to stop activities or make an adjustment.

Lastly, if you feel dizzy or faint, let me know immediately. I keep an extra bottle of water in the dungeon in case someone feels faint and we can simply move on to lighter activities that are just as thrilling.

Now that you have read my rules and safety information, feel free to contact me. If you have additional questions that my website does not answer, I will be more than happy to talk with you.