I received a call from a new client a few days ago and he said he was a novice, never tried domination before, but had been fantasizing about it for years. When I asked him what he was open to, he said he thought he was open to everything. Given that this was going to be his first time, I knew that a sensual sensual session with BDSM sampling would work best. I find that newbies will do just about anything if appropriately turned on, most men will, so sensuality is a main focus in my sessions. Given that men are such simple creatures, I still have not figured out why women do not rule the world.

 

My new friend arrives and I know immediately that I will get along with him. For starters, he drives the same kind of car as me. My fans already know what kind of car that is but if you are a first time reader, I drive the coolest car on the roads: a mini cooper. I am a hot domme in a racer green mini cooper. My new friend brings me a bottle of red wine, so he is scoring points left and right, and to top it off, I quickly discover he has a good sense of humor. And yes, laughter and BDSM do mix well, especially when you are slapping the submissive’s face with a cock or sitting on their face until you see arms flaying back in forth because the air supply is running low. You can clearly see how domination can be funny. Maybe not for the submissive, but certainly for the dominatrix.

 

I love fresh blood but the pressure is on when I play with new clients particularly if they are novices to the scene. I have to read every facial expression, every reaction and hope that I can gauge what the submissive is going to enjoy. Now some people would say it is all about the Mistress’s enjoyment, but the truth is, and I have said this many times, if the submissive is not into it, then the domme has no power or control over him/ her. I do not know what it is like for other Mistresses, but I get a rush off of power and control so being able to read people and know what buttons to push is crucial for my pleasure and it just so happens that my kink works in the favor of the submissive. Everyone wins and that is a beautiful thing. Rush Limbaugh would call it liberalism, I call it getting my way at the benefit of others.

 

I begin with a sexy strip, me stripping him because I am have naked anyway. He needs to be naked as well. I can feel his cock growing hard beneath his pants and I am just itching to slap that  thing. Soft wet lips touch his nipples followed by pearly white teeth clamping down. Reaction: he takes it but I can tell it is not his thing, so I jokingly tell him that I will be pulling out the clamps next even though I know his nipples are not a control point so we will be moving on. Balls tied up, light cock slapping, nails teasing the  balls. Now we have found a control point, but how far can I push it? The cock teasing drives him mad, but that is a given. The horse tail flogger followed by leather flogger do not prove to be a control point so I pull out the violet want. Mixed with cock teasing, I have found another power point with electrical play. In between my discoveries, I am rubbing my tone body up and down his helplessly tied and bound body, smashing his cock with my perfect ass, gazing in his eyes, barely touching my lips against his. The Mistress loves what? Tease and denial. I cannot get enough of it. I could get off on an entire session of tease and denial. Love it, love it, love it.

 

I need to find out how he is going to react to another favorite: slut training. On all fours, I zap his asshole with the violet want just because I am sick and perverse, put the Tens unit cock straps on him and begin to determine how tight or loose he is. Glove on, lube in hand, I dive in. Slowly. I do not want to scare the hell out of my new friend. His reaction is nervousness. This is his first time. I love virgin asses, but virgin asses need lots to tender care because they are new to the game of sexual objectification for the Mistress’s entertainment. I decide to relax him by inserting a small dildo, making him sit on it for the extra deep penetration and having him assist me with my favorite activity. That would be making myself cum.

 

If my submissives are fortunate enough to be granted an orgasm, then I get to go first. This is a non-negotiable requirement. So my new friend kisses and massages my inner thighs while I pleasure myself with the Rabbit. Butt plug in, cock straps on, he works diligently kissing and massaging while I take my time enjoying the feel of the vibrator moving up and down my clit, teasing my lips and getting me wet before I have a long, intense orgasm. He pulls his head back to watch my pussy twitch and drip and when I finally come up for air, he tells me “That was worth the price of admission.” Yes, it was.

 

That was a telling remark. In his fantasies, he is into everything, but in reality, he is into sensual domination. I tell him to get on his back. He watches while I drip oil down my breasts and stomach. I slide my oiled body up and down his and then begin to control him through erotic torture. Before I continue, this was one of the hottest, most erotic and intense reactions I have ever gotten from erotic torture. Erotic torture is bringing someone to the point of orgasm, stopping, starting, stopping, starting,etc. until the submissive is out of his fucking mind. The begging, the moaning, the unintelligible words uttered in a pathetic attempt for mercy. It is a beautiful thing. I often have to wipe a tear from my eye it is so fucking beautiful. And today, we got there baby, and when we got there, it went on and on. I got my control rush, he was light headed and shaking. Just delightful. 

 

Finger in his ass, I barely stroke and tease his erect cock. Using my nails up and down, teasing balls, lightly touching the sensitive head. He looks like he is going into convulsions, crying out, rolling his head back and forth, body heaving. The reason I enjoy using a finger for prostate massage is because you can easily tell when someone is about to cum. This allows for total Mistress control. I do not need to rely on the submissive to tell me when to stop and when to start. This session was amazing because without touching his cock, his prostate got to the point of orgasm at least 5 times. By the time he finally came, I was not touching his cock. That is ultimate control: to make a submissive cum without touching the cock. And get this, I kid you not, he came for two minutes straight. Cum wasn’t shooting out of the cock the entire time, but his prostrate remained hard and he just kept cumming and cumming internally. It was similar to a woman’s g-spot orgasm. By the time the prostrate went down, he didn’t know what the fuck was going on with his body. He just laid there shaking, unable to collect himself and get up. So I left him there and took a nap. It was highly intense for both of us.

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